•Slide towards gentility as behaviorally defined characteristic. (cf. Austen)
•Samuel Smiles,
Self-help (1859) Definition
of “a true
gentleman”: "a keen
sense of honor – scrupulously
avoiding mean actions. His standard of probity in word and action is high. He does not shuffle or prevaricate, dodge or skulk; but
is honest, upright and
straightforward“
•“If a man is obliged to take even the life of another, in the disharge [sic] of his duty, he should
do it with perfect
kindness and courtesy”
Thomas Low Nichols, How to Behave, 1873
•=> Wholly based on
individual conduct.
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