Being a
Participant Observer in Hong Kong
By Allie D'Amanda
My friend Ashley
and I spent our whole time in Hong Kong instead of going to China
like most
SAS students. One day we decided to
spend the day at Repulse bay, a beautiful beach on mainland Hong Kong. I was
excited to
relax on a quiet beach because ultimately, I just wanted to get away
from the hustle
and bustle of the city. I like to
“people watch;” I like to sit at a little café and be a silent
observer.
My day of
relaxation and silent observation did not turn out as planned. On the beach, I took off my bathing suit
cover-up, adjusted my bikini, and laid out my towel. Even before I
could close
my eyes and feel the sea breeze on my face, I had a cluster of people
with the cameras
staring and pointing at me. I tried to
pretend I hadn’t seen them, but soon an old man came toward me and with
a
wrinkled hand, held his camera up to his face and clicked a picture. I smiled and reluctantly got up, but stood
beside him and motioned for him to pass his camera to Ashley so that
she could
take a picture of us together. He was so
excited that I thought he might loose his balance and fall on the
uneven
sand. I smiled and noticed how kind his
face was.
As soon as I had
taken the picture with him, he waved at the rest of the people he was
with and
beckoned them to come over. For the next
five minutes I took pictures with everyone in his group: by the water,
next to
a sandcastle, by the lifeguard stand, with the mountains in the
background,
with the town in the background, any and every scene they could think
of. I felt like a celebrity.
By the end, not even upset that my intended
“quiet-time” was disrupted, and I laughed, because once again I had
deviated
from my day’s plan and was left more satisfied than I thought possible.
So why was I so
concerned about preserving my privacy and why was I annoyed that my
personal
realm was disrupted? For some reason I
thought that even being in another country I would be able to
“disappear” like
I do at home. But I did not take into
account that I am not only different in appearance, but what is normal
for me
is not necessarily normal for the people in this culture.
I was wearing a bathing suit that was not
modest, and I was the only one on the beach with blonde hair and blue
eyes. There
was no real way for me to “fit in.” Just
as I like to study people who are different than I am, I forget that I
am just
as different to them.
Even though I
could not communicate with them through speech, we found a connection
through
our mutual interest in each other. My
focus turned from pleasing myself to pleasing others.
I went from “people-watching” to having
people watch me. Although I first felt
uncomfortable, I created more of a connection with my group of
observers
because they engaged me! Gerry
Tierney felt similar when she says in
her essay “Becoming a Participant Observer,”
At
first, my primary activity was just
hanging out. I was usually quite comfortable doing so and I watched
every
little things, always listening to the sounds of the street, a world
that was
slowly opening up to me…The only time I felt uncomfortable was when the
tables
were turned and people on the street took to watching me (10).
I can relate to
Tierney here, and like she says later, after she began engaging in
conversations with people, she developed much more rewarding
relationships with
people. I hope to take this encounter on
the beach in Hong Kong and remember
that
sometimes I can learn more from people when I become a participant
observer
instead of a removed onlooker.
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