THE SOCIAL CONSTRUCTION OF SELF

what are we made of?
nature vs. nurture vs. both?

SOCIALIZATION OF SELF

George Herbert Mead .... "I" and "me" ... self as both active and passive (things happen to you and also you do things to others)

constant internal dialogue between I and me allows us to modify our behavior according to expectations of others around us (self-aware, self-controlled individuals)

Stages of anticipatory socialization

Charles Horton Cooley, looking glass-self (actions of others toward us are mirrors in  which we see ourselves):
a) our perception of how we appear to another person
b) our estimate of the judgment of the other person makes about us
c) some emotional feeling about this judgment, such as pride or shame role taking...... as a means of social control and as a means by which culture is incorporated into the self.
 
"Because role taking is the process of imagining another person's attitudes and intentions and thereby anticipating that person's behavior, it is essential for everyday social interaction."                            David Newman (1999) 

SOCIALIZATION OF GENDER

sex: biological category
gender: psychological, social, cultural category (socially constructed)

gender is a role that we learn to play/act according to cultural norms and expectations

structural and linguistic discrimination of gender is embedded deeply in the culture so that most of the time we don't question them or their origins.

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