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"Such a feeling's coming over
me. There is wonder in most everything I see. Not a cloud in the sky,
got the sun in my eye, and I won't be suprised if it's a dream...I'm on
the top of the world, looking down on creation as the only explaination
I can find...It's the love that I found ever since you've been around.
Your love put me at the top of the world."
- The Carpenters
Dear
Prospective Travelers,
These
past one hundred days traveling around ten countries have been simply
thrilling. I have gotten a marvelous glimpse of Hawaii,
Japan, Hong Kong, Vietnam,
Burma, India, Egypt,
Turkey, Croatia
and Spain.
I have met people of many ages who have taught me so much without even
saying
much at all. These individuals of the world - a mother, father, sister,
brother, distant cousin perhaps, a potential friend - have showed me
how the
lines of destiny and fate have profoundly altered the course of our
lives. One mere
decision, made complete in a matter of seconds, generations ago by my
ancestors
have changed who I am by 360 degrees: my culture, values, opportunities
in
life, even the language I speak! It blows my mind to think how I could
have
been living the lives of anyone I met had that one decision not been
made, or
had it been made differently!
I
will always remember one girl who befriended me at a girl’s orphanage
in Burma. She was so excited to meet me because I was
Chinese and so was she. I was her long lost sister and she was mine.
She
conversed to me in Burmese, the little English and fading Chinese that
she
knew. I communicated back to her in the
English, little Chinese and virtually zero Burmese I knew.
She told me that she had moved to Burma
with her
little sister and parents when she was very young. Although she was
Chinese,
she was much more Burmese. With a beautiful, shy smile filled with
humility and
excitement, she shared her culture by teaching me spoken words and
fluidly writing
Burmese characters into my journal. As I watched in amazement, thoughts
that
marveled at our differences also marveled at our similarity. Although
generations-old decisions and my own have affected who I am and the way
I am, I
noticed a universal human spirit within us both. We were both, in
essence,
people - with same basic desires, needs, dreams…
My
travels by foot, air, automobiles and ocean has shown me different
facets of a
world so vast. Yet through meeting people of different faces, values,
cultures,
languages, who are the reason for making my journey purely
indescribable and
unbelievable, I am humbled by this revelation: that it is truly a small
world
after all. We are all people. Just people, who are decorated
differently. This
is our strongest connection that defies all boundaries, allowing us to
appreciate our unique designs instead of being threatened or distanced
by them.
With
all I am, I encourage you to travel. Your adventure does not have to be
traveling around the world, or visiting multiple countries. It could
simply be
visiting a place that puts you out of your comfort zone, in the best
way
possible. Lessons are lurking around every corner, waiting to be
discovered and
ingested. Stereotypes are waiting to be broken, as tolerance is waiting
to be
formed. By you and for you.
Going
to another country, another
culture, will change you. For the better, I believe, especially if you
have an
open mind and take risks to indulge into the culture. The best way to
delve
into the culture that I have learned is to travel independently, away
from the
tourist track, throwing away your inhibitions and extending yourself to
others.
Merge into local life, and be as “Un-(your cultural identity here)” as
possible! And get lost! Run off schedule! Don’t even plan a schedule!
Enjoy the
unexpected twists that lead you to another face of life that you never
knew of
or planned on seeing. In Vietnam,
my friend Laura and I rented bicycles from locals, and spent five hours
biking
around the Mekong Delta! We biked into an alleyway and came across a
world of
hidden houses and children who were so excited to meet foreigners! We
were just
as excited to meet them. Getting lost and going into unknown places off
the map
was one of the best memories of my trip.
Your
fears may not necessarily be
valid in another country as in your home country, so do not let them
hold you
back. Many times, I have learned that the risk taken in trusting people
has
rewarded me with the best experiences and memories. The locals that you
will
meet are ambassadors who will give you the inside scoop and truer
perspective
of their country. They will show you life as it is through their eyes.
And you
will see life at face value, without the conformity of what tourist
agencies
want you to see. (Plus, they know all the fun places to go and fun
things to
do!) Don’t forget that you also represent your own country, too! And
that the
way you act is being processed, scrutinized, and shapes people’s
perceptions of
others in your country. The good and bad that you experience as you
travel will
allow you to have a wider perception of the world, which may confuse
you or
bring clarity at times. Either way, you will definitely grow and help
others to
grow because of this. Exploring life is enriching. So I highly
encourage you to
take this opportunity of a lifetime and travel! This small world that
we live
in is so big, and all of its greatness is waiting to be explored by you!
PS
- Don't forget to bring an extra big suitcase, enough to sneak a person
inside, so that I can come tag along with you too!
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